How to Eat Pussy Better: A Bisexual Woman’s Confession

I've been with six guys and four girls at this point and I need to say this because the difference in how women eat pussy versus how men eat pussy is staggering. Not all men are bad at it but most of you are doing this thing where you go straight for the clit like you're trying to win a speed eating contest and that is NOT it.

Here's what actually works based on my experience on both sides:

Start with everything except the pussy. Kiss her thighs, her hip bones, her lower stomach. Breathe on her. Let her feel your mouth close but not touching where she wants it. Make her squirm first. If she's not already wet before your tongue touches her, you started too early.

When you do go down, start AROUND the clit not ON it. Lick wide, flat strokes up the whole length of her pussy. Get your tongue broad and soft, not pointed and stabbing. Think of licking an ice cream cone not poking a doorbell.

The clit is sensitive. Too much direct pressure too fast will make her flinch, not moan. Circle around it first. Use the flat of your tongue. Build up to direct contact and even then vary the pressure.

Find a rhythm and STICK WITH IT. This is the number one mistake guys make. You find something that works, she starts moaning, and then you change it up because you think faster or harder must be better. NO. If she's moaning, you're doing the right thing, keep doing EXACTLY that. Same speed, same pressure, same motion. Do not deviate.

Use your fingers while you eat her out. One or two fingers inside, curling up toward her belly button in a "come here" motion while your tongue works her clit. The combination is what makes most women actually cum from oral.

Suction. Gently suck on her clit while you flick your tongue against it. Not like a vacuum cleaner, just gentle pulling suction. This is the secret weapon that most girls I've been with use and most guys don't.

Her legs shaking is a good sign. Her thighs closing around your head is a good sign. Her hand in your hair pushing you down is a good sign. If any of those things happen DO NOT STOP and DO NOT CHANGE what you're doing.

And after she cums, slow down gradually. Don't just pop up and wipe your chin. Keep your mouth on her, slow your tongue, let her come down. The aftershocks from gentle licking after an orgasm are incredible and most guys skip them entirely.

I eat pussy the way I want mine eaten and every girl I've been with has cum multiple times. Meanwhile I've had to physically guide half the guys I've been with because they're just... flailing down there. Take notes please.